Ayla's COURSE of LOVE
for the Inner Work Aficionado
- deprogram your nervous system of your personal self-sabotaging programs through the use of self-directed psychosomatic techniques that are bound to get you in touch with the most intimate parts of your psyche - those responsible for your tangible behaviours;
- balance your belief system around relationships with your physiology;
- upgrade your self-knowledge, self-worth, and self-confidence;
- drastically reduce your fear of rejection and abandonment;
- learn how to permanently eliminate/change/deprogram any belief that keeps you from experiencing the love life you really desire and deserve;
- use the Cards of Truth system to help you discern where your personal blockages are, according to your unique Birth time and date;
This course is designed to take you to Joy in the realm of relationships. Part of a fun, supportive, safe, like-minded group of people, we will immerse ourselves into a LIVE series of inner-work tools and a sturdy body of knowledge (the Cards of Truth mapping of life, as taught by my friend and mentor, Ernst Wilhelm) that will help you manifest your best love-life yet! I realize this is a bold claim, but this type of approach is one that yields results, as opposed to meandering around aimlessly.
"Compatibility is only half of the picture when it comes to a healthy relationship. The other half is your (and your partner's) capacity to relate in such a way so as to make another person feel loved, respected and cherished, as well as your capacity to be loved, respected and cherished by someone who wants to do the job. Not knowing our capacity to relate is like driving with our eyes closed" (Ernst Wilhelm)
I hope, with this course, to help guide you towards clearing away some of the traps that education, past experiences, limiting beliefs and fears, as well as pseudo-spirituality and mass psycho-babbling plague humans nowadays. We will, for 11 weeks, follow a path of self-discovery, so that each of us can pick ourselves up from wherever we’ve been stagnating or from wherever our personal road feels like less than peace. This is a manifestation course. It is not about IF, but about WHEN. And the answer to WHEN is - the moment you embody your best self in a way that is authentic and affirming. We will go through our spreads to see the blockages. We will embody our blockages in a hands-on way and learn how to free ourselves from them. We will then state our preferences for the love-life we desire and deserve. By uncovering our limiting beliefs, our self-sabotaging patterns and our embodied trauma, we will be able to create space in our psyche for a new paradigm, and we will find ways that allow old/unproductive trauma-based behaviours to exit our life for good! I invite you to DARE to do this for yourself, for your partners and for your children. I am very excited to meet you and to start this amazing journey!!
This Course will yield results for you if:
- You feel absolutely sick of your relationship experience and are committed to getting out from under it once and for all.
- You have been looking for answers for a while now, but, for some reason, you have not been able to translate any of the answers you’ve found into productive ways that truly, meaningfully change your relationships.
- Something perpetually intervenes between what you know you have to do and what you are actually, tangibly doing in order to manifest the relationship of your dreams.
- You are at your wits’ end and feel lost and don’t know where to even begin to look for a solid foundation for your relationships.
- You are committed to feeling whatever you will feel, no matter how painful, how humbling, or how frightening, so that you overcome the dictates of your upbringing and experiences so far.
- You are ready, able and eager to consistently challenge what you think you know about relationships and about yourself.
This Course might not be for you if:
- Your mind is closed and pinned into concepts that you hold as truths that you feel unwilling or unable to challenge.
- You are merely shopping around for distracting information that allows you to keep floating away on the ocean of your current experience.
- You are not ready to deeply, courageously look for what keeps you away from the Joy you are looking for.
- You think inner work is a journey of happy-go-lucky positive-vibe Unicorns, Fairies and Bliss-Bunnies.
This is about LOVE
It is about manifesting your best relationship ever, either it's about an existing relationship, one that ended or that is yet to come.
The course will include:
- one 30 minutes initial private session with me where we assess together your personal goals for the course - prior to the course starting;
- participation in the 11 weeks course;
- my Book: Ayla's Book of Truth
The course will consist of (Zoom) weekly meetings with myself and the other members of the group, where we will discuss what comes up for each of us with regards to the themes described below. We will focus on assessing each participant's spread in order to find the most likely areas and circumstances where the person has the biggest challenges in manifesting the relationship they want. In order to integrate the intelectual knowledge and bring it into our experiential reality, I will be teaching practical exercises that are the cutting edge approach in psychosomatics to date.
The Course will cover these topics, one for each week:
1. Introduction
- getting to know one another - our relationship status and history
- assessing the level of our knowledge of the Cards of Truth compatibility module (*you do not need to know or want to know this system)
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "pause and surrender". This is the first step that will get us in touch with our body, in order to find the context and the parameters that make it open to allow LOVE in.
2. Willfulness, Passion and Expectations
- dive into a personalized assessment of each participant's spread - I will take one person's spread and analyze where the biggest blockage is, most likely;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to follow our bodily ques" - this is about learning to hear and to respect the subtle messages our body is communicating its needs.
3. The Sun and the Sun Card
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's Sun and Sun card;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to respect our body". Being present with the reality of our inner sensations is a life-saving skil, especially when it comes to relationships. This is not about feeling better, but about getting better at feeling.
4. The Moon and the Moon Card
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's Moon and Moon card;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to feel/emote" - looking at the fine-line between feeling vs thinking. Allowing uncomfortable feelings to exist, while becoming discerning about the message the mind intervenes in coping with them.
5. The 1st Cusp and the 7th Cusp
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's 1st/7th cusp;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to sense what's happening inside (self-awareness/interoception) and outside (awareness)"
6. The 4th Cusp and the 10th Cusp
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's 4th/10th cusp;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to work with life's layers". Human body, human life and human relationships are complex and any dysfunction can quickly become overwhelming and thus prone to take us away from our natural flow.
7. The Self and the Partnership Factors (AK/DK)
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's AK/DK;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to safely work with fear, anger and grief". Learn to consistently, consciously allow these parts of us to be expressed and healthily released.
8. Mars and the Mars Card
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's Mars and Mars card;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to safely work with toxic shame"
9. Venus and the Venus Card
- dive into a personalized assessment of a participant's Venus and Venus card;
- neuro-sensory exercises meant to help us "raise our capacity to dare to be happy"
10. Q&A with Ernst Wilhelm
11. Conclusions
*In order to follow this course effectively, if you don't already have them, you will need to buy the Cards of Truth software and the subscription to the www.cardsoftruth.com Learning Centre BUT, if it is not your intention to learn any card reading or astrological concepts, you don't HAVE TO. The course will make sense to you even without any knowledge or interest in this tool.
Testimonials
- "I have never met a therapist before who genuinely cares and is there for the client as much as Ayla is. I feel she truly goes above and beyond a typical therapy session as her love for what she does and creativity truly shine through in the thoughtfulness of each session, her sincerity and genuine openness, as well as, the diverse practices she draws from. Ayla is very much someone you can count on and gain massive insight from the start. Since beginning therapy with Ayla, I have acquired many helpful tools I have put into practice, as well as learned natural home remedies to help with ailments and even gotten help from her around starting my own website. In just a few months of sessions with Ayla I made major life changes that I was hesitant to pursue at first and am now very happy I did. Ayla has contributed to my life in such a positive way and has been key in me being able to see myself, my patterns and actions more clearly. I find her sessions and insight invaluable, and her integrity, inspiring." S. C., New York, USA
- "I have been doing the 'inner work' for almost three decades now - with various teachers and healers. Ayla has been the only one that has been able to get to one of my core trauma. In a short period of time, she has helped me shift my life in a way that I have not been able to do in years. Her brilliance, strength, commitment, and compassion is unparalleled. May she be blessed always as she has blessed me." D.M, Florida, USA
- I've been working with Ayla for years. Shes helped me in more ways then anyone can imagine. Ayla is an amazing teacher. I can't say enough great things about her and her methods." M.H. - Massachusetts, USA
